Thursday, July 20, 2006

Jane says it very well

Jane Brocket's blog has been a delight to read since I found it a few months ago. Today's it's also educational.

I have very strong feelings on the subject of her post today -- as anyone who frequents the Knitty Coffeeshop knows. I am in complete, 100% agreement with the kind Ms Brocket. And so I'll just let Jane say it for me, since she's done it so well. [click on the excerpt to read her whole blog post, which is absolutely worth reading.]

"Now I am passionate about freedom of speech, and I am concerned about how it can be used in blogs and blogging. We all know that freedom of speech can be used to create or to destroy. If misapplied, freedom of speech becomes a freedom to undermine, to critcise, to make simplistic, vacuous and judgmental comments which deaden the energy and life of creative blogs.

If used in a thoughtful, constructive, positive manner, freedom of speech on blogs can contribute enormously to, and sustain, the fluidity of creativity, the exchange of ideas, the liveliness which keeps crafty blogs alive and ever-changing."


Our parents [hopefully] taught us manners when we were younger. Now that we have a new way of expressing ourselves on this series of tubes we call the internets, why should we forget good manners?

Comments:
Yes, very nice sentiment there. Thanks for the link!
 
Thanks for directing me to her blog. Today's post is a very good one.
 
Thanks so much for the link to Jane's blog. I really liked her entry today and I was concerned about this topic when i recently started blogging myself. Manners are universal--it doesn't matter if people are talking to each other in person or over the internet!
Thanks again and Go Knitty! :o)
 
I have to say, I've been thinking similar thoughts, particularly after I stumbled across a thoughtless Flickr photo that took a shot at Knitty. I hope that the best creative commentary comes from learning and exploration rather than "I didn't like it so I'm going to mock it." Knitty remains one of my very favorite publications; thanks for the patterns and thanks for sharing the great post.
 
This is absolutely horrid of me but I am looking for someone who used to frequent this site quite often in the past. She ran a group on Yahoo and I have not been able to get a hold of her for nearly a year and I am becoming concerned. Her name is Lilly and she used to use the name bylunaslight, please if anyone knows who she is or how to contact her let me know.
crochetxchange@yahoo.com
Thank you so much...sorry for this but I am getting really worried that something may have happened to her.
Blessings and Twilight,
Mag
 
This is interesting-- I disagree with this quite a lot. Manners are *not* universal; they're cultural, they change, and it's not reasonable to expect everyone's manners to match your own ideals, especially on the public internet.

This is the one thing I actually learned from Miss Manners-- that most personal conflicts are a matter of clashing manners, and the solution is to remember that your own cultural ideals are not universal. Some people feel entitled to write blogs and not receive any criticism because they do it for free and for fun. Some people feel that public conversations are open season for voicing blunt, personal opinions. You can make a case for either option, really.

My take is that if a blogger expects certain boundaries to be respected, she should STATE those boundaries.

Merlin Mann has a great little guideline on his comments box at 43folders, and it seems to work for him. "Be smart, funny, or-- ideally-- both. Stuff that's off-topic, abusive, or otherwise busts the rules is removed without comment."
 
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(^ that's what i get for editing my comments because of a typo. i guess you can't just stop being a proofreader.
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My opinion on this is to err on the side of caution. Just like any well-mannered person wouldn't congratulate a woman who has a bulging tummy on her upcoming increasing family without KNOWING she's pregnant, I'd rather assume people don't want to be taunted and razzed (intelligently or not) without their invitation.
 
I hope that means that I still get to say............


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WITH FRAPPUCINOS


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Here's to good manners. May we all give AND receive them daily.
 
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